If you've developed feelings for one of your best friends, you know how scary it can be. Should you tell your friend you're in love with them? What happens if they don't love you back - will you lose their friendship? Get the answers to these questions and more. (The only answer I don't have is whether or not they like you back. You'll have to find that one out on your own.)
1. Make Sure You're Sure You're Really in Love
There's a difference between having a passing crush on someone and truly being in love. For instance, if:
* You're on the rebound from another relationship
* Your friend is on the rebound and acting vulnerable
* Your friend got a new style and has been looking extra cute lately
* Your friend just started dating someone, and they're spending less time with you
* Someone said that you and your friend would make a cute couple
* You and your friend became close only recently
Then you might just have a temporary crush on your friend. Give it a couple of weeks and see if those feelings disappear on their own. If they do, you'll be relieved that you never said anything.
2. If It's the Real Deal, Is It the Right Time?
Even if you're sure of your feelings, you shouldn't necessarily reveal them to your friend. Don't drop the bomb under any of these circumstances:
